Young Love: A Note To Self
—- If you are in a relationship, make sure it is one that empowers you, one that allows you to learn from each other, not one that holds you back. Make sure it is one that doesn’t get in the way of you being you in your youth.
- Make sure it is one that teaches you about yourself.
- Make sure that it is one that makes you laugh more than it makes you cry.
- Make sure it is one that makes you feel like your capabilities are boundless.
- Be with someone who supports you, someone who doesn’t impose unsolicited opinions, someone who allows you to take time for yourself.
- Be with someone you can honestly converse with, someone that listens, someone that you want to listen to.
- Be with someone who doesn’t possess you, but who possesses qualities that you admire.
- Be with someone who doesn’t play mind games, who doesn’t use guilt to manipulate you.
- Be with someone who wants to know you, someone that wants you to know who you are.
- Be with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, who everyday tells you that you are beautiful both inside and out.
- Be with someone equally ambitious, someone also constantly working on self-improvement, someone who inspires you to challenge yourself instead of just being comfortable with what you have. It is more likely that this kind of person will understand that at this point in your life he may not always come first, but that that doesn’t necessarily make him any less important.
- Be with someone who truly appreciates not just your presence but your role in his life, someone that trusts you and someone that you can trust.
- Be that someone for someone.
The time will come for compromises and sacrifices, but there is no better time to discover who YOU are than in your youth.
The right person will admire your strength of character.
The right person will encourage you to be the best version of you that you can be, and the feeling of security within that relationship will be unbreakable. —-
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I am probably one of the weirdest people you will ever meet.
Not weird as in I do voodoo or things like that. Weird as in I would probably run around randomly, play games with you, talk about the awkwardest things, act like a retard and most importantly, be there for you in the most uncommon ways. But hey, normal gets boring. Being weird is Interesting.
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